| Location | Swanley |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 12/2004 |
| Date of Death | 12/2004 |
| Visitors | 2,940 since 20/01/2007 |
| Creator |
jimmy
died 28th december 2004
born 31st december 2004
i was 39 weeks pregnant when i felt jimmys last movement i went to hospital that night 28th december 2004 and they broke the horrible news you had died.i was left those days til 31st dec when they induced me. i was give tablets to start labour off at 9:30. i sat in the room in bed waiting for things to haappen with people coming and going not knowing what to say. when things started to happen i was given morphine to numb the pain, i can't remember much more apart from my waters breaking around 3ish then at 7:00 jimmy finally arrived, i waited for him to cry to prove they had made a mistake but nothing just silence. i watched as they wrapped him up and handing him to me i remember having the biggest smile on my face i felt so proud of him but longed fo him to wake and cry. he weighing 7lb exact. it was so hard knowing he wouldnt cry. you was so perfect but what killed you was your cord. all those flips inside was ended. we layed you to rest on 14th january 2005 many paid there respect.
this poem was writen and read by jimmys aunty anna at his funeral
they say there is a reason,
they say that time will heel,
but neither time nor reason will change the way i feel,
for no one knows the heartache that lies beyond our smile.
no one knows how many times we have broken down and cried.
we want to tell you something so there won't be any doubt, your so wonderful to think of but so hard to be with out.
this poem was writen by jimmy's aunty maxine, and she read it at your funeral with the help from me.
you are....
you are the sun that brightens the day,
you are the one we longed for to stay.
you are the twinkling star in the night sky,
you are the sparkle that fills everyones eye.
yo are the freshness of the sea breeze,
you are the excitement behind the tease.
you are the bright colours that form a rainbow,
you are the radiant flare of the fires glow.
you are the beauty of that striking sunset,
you are the creation we don't plan to forget.
you are the tranquility of a cool mountain lake,
you are the baby we wish to awake.
you are the astonishment of a summers bliss,
you are the one we shall truthfully miss.
you are the crispness of the oceans waves,
you are the infant with parents so brave.
you are the handsome babe not to be mistaken,
yu are the one whose life was tragically taken.
you are the being required above,
you are the child we will always love!
do you remember the song auntie maxine use to sing to you when you were in mummy's belly:
my jimmy lies over the ocean
my jimmmy lies over the sea
my jimmy lies over the ocean
so bring back my jimmy to me.
bring back, bring back, oh bring back my jimmy to me.
the song playing(real world) is the one played at jimmy's funeral
another year
another year has pass and it is now 7yrs since u died today, the pain and heartache is still there. b ut ive got to be strong for ur daddy and ur brothers and sister. i look at frankie sleeping and he looks so like u. i often sit and wonder what u would be like. i love u so much my precious boy.
Don't Tell Me
Don't Tell Me
Please don't tell me you know how I feel,
Unless you have lost your child too,
Please don't tell me my broken heart will heal,
Because that is just not true,
Please don't tell me my son is in a better place,
Though it is true, I want him here with me,
Don't tell me someday I'll hear his voice, see his face,
Beyond today I cannot see,
Don?t tell me it is time to move on,
Because I cannot,
Don?t tell me to face the fact he is gone,
Because denial is something I can't stop,
Don't tell me to be thankful for the time I had,
Because I wanted more,
Don't tell me when I am my old self you will be glad,
I'll never be as I was before,
What you can tell me is you will be here for me,
That you will listen when I talk of my child,
You can share with me my precious memories,
You can even cry with me for a while,
And please don't hesitate to say his name,
Because it is something I long to hear everyday,
Friend please realize that I can never be the same,
But if you stand by me, you may like the new person I become someday.
hi little man its carly hope ur having fun up there with all ur angel friends and being good miss u loads little man wish i had chance to meet u and giv u big snuggles little man hope ur watching over mummy and daddy and ur brother and sister i havent seen mummy for ages and i miss her loads to i miss our wild days and our chats and gossip with mummy well sleep tight my darling miss u loads and love u allways love carly and lexie xxxxx
hi ya mummys special little man, hope you had a lovely bithday yesterday. we miss you like crazy baby boy don't seem like its been 6 years since we last held you. ssweet dreams precious.x.x.x.x.
hi ya mummys special little man, hope you had a lovely bithday yesterday. we miss you like crazy baby boy don't seem like its been 6 years since we last held you. ssweet dreams precious.x.x.x.x.
hi ya precious little man hope your enjoying christmas with all your angel friends. you've had loads of lovely presents. me and daddy love you so much jimmy.x.x.x.x.
hello baby boy. it,s daddy sorry i dont come on here much but i dont really know what too put miss you so much just trying to get on with it .trying to do things with vinnie what i always wanted to do with you sort of getting there.chanel growing up fast .just wish i had you to hold and play with as well . got ur handprints on my chest now so at least i get to fill your love that way.love you loads xxxxxxxxxxxx
Born Asleep - by Unknown Author
“Born Asleep" - such a beautiful phrase,
Always touches me to the core.
The broken cries of a Mother's heart
When it just can't take anymore.
I open my heart, one Mum to another,
So you never lose your hope,
That although it gets no easier,
I promise you'll learn to cope.
Remember your Angel is sleeping
In a world much kinder than ours
And will always be there to hold your hand
Even in your darkest hours.
My own little Angel will keep an eye,
And play with yours in their park.
But you must find your love and strength,
And feed your own little spark.
You'll never be alone my friend,
I will always understand.
If the tides loom up to swallow you,
Just reach out and grab my hand.
X
In a baby castle, just beyond your eye,
Your baby plays with angel toys that money cannot buy.
Who are you to wish him back into this world of strife,
No, play on your baby, they'll have eternal life.
At night when all is silent and sleep forsakes your eyes,
You'll hear their tiny footsteps come running to your side
Their little hands caress you so tenderly and sweet,
You'll breathe a prayer and close your eyes and embrace them in your sleep.
Now you have a treasure that you rate above all others
You have known true glory,
You are still their mother.
thinking of you
hi my precious sweet pea, mummy's been think of you loads today imagining what you'd look like, what you'd like and that. i'm sitting listening to your song thinking it felt like last week we was in the church looking at your tiny coffin listening to it. doesn't seem like you've been goon almost 6 years. thinking of the times i lay watching you move and kick and then stopping and not feeling you just happened so quick. love you so much my precious angel. sweet dreams my jimmy.x.x.x.x.
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